Jay is a very determined man. It is often mistaken for stubbornness.
One thing he is more determined to change then anything is his family tree. One side of his parentage has left a wake of pain and destruction on the lives of many of the little ones brought into the world. For the past 7 years, Jay has been trying to make a change in lives of two of his half siblings he knows best. Last night was the first tangible step in this journey. His half brother will be staying with us for a while.
The kids have immediately taken to him. They love him without a second thought. I think this is one of the best qualities each and every one of our kids have.
More than anything we want to model family to him. We want to show him there is greatness in being a family unit, not just hurt. We know he will be welcomed into our community. Southern hospitality is an excellent thing, even it if seems to freak him out some.
Only time will tell, but I'm sure this is going to be a move for the better.
“What greater thing is there for human souls than to feel that they are joined for life - to be with each other in silent unspeakable memories.”
~ George Eliot
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